盤點(diǎn)優(yōu)質(zhì)男9大特征：你男朋友占幾項(xiàng)

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優(yōu)質(zhì)男都有哪些特質(zhì)？

　　1. He caters to you.
　　1、他寵愛(ài)你。
　　He makes sure you're happy day in and day out. He listens to your crazy work stories; he rubs your neck when it's sore; he cooks you dinner on the nights you're feeling sleepy. Caring for you is one of his top priorities, and he does a damn good job of it.
　　他確保你天天開(kāi)心。他會(huì)聽(tīng)你吐槽工作中遇到的煩心事；你脖子酸時(shí)，他會(huì)給你按摩；在你犯困的夜晚他給你做晚飯。他把關(guān)愛(ài)你作為眾多首要事情之一，而且他的確把這做得特別好。

　　2. He wants to hang out with you . . . a LOT.
　　2、他很想經(jīng)常跟你一起閑蕩。
　　If he's texting you every day to see if you'd like to Netflix and chill (I kid, I kid), you mean something to this guy, because, let's face it — they're notorious for spontaneous ghosting.
　　如果他每天發(fā)短信給你，問(wèn)你是否想要看Netflix的影片放松一下（我開(kāi)玩笑的），那么你對(duì)他而言有一定分量。因?yàn)�，讓我們接受現(xiàn)實(shí)吧，那些片子可是因重影而飽受人們?cè)嵅〉摹?/font>

　　3. Sex isn't a huge factor for him.
　　3、性并不是你吸引他的一大因素。
　　Sure, he likes to do the dirty here and there, but sex isn't the reason he's with you. Far from it. In fact, he wants to do SO much more with you by his side — travel to another country! Sample beer! Have a half-birthday party! The possibilities are endless.
　　當(dāng)然他愛(ài)四處留情，不過(guò)性卻不是他與你在一起的原因。他遠(yuǎn)不是為了這個(gè)才與你相守。事實(shí)上，他想要你陪在身旁的情景是如此之多，像是去外國(guó)旅游、喝啤酒、提前半年開(kāi)生日慶祝派對(duì)等等。他有數(shù)不完的事想與你一同去完成。

　　4. He keeps you in mind when making major decisions.
　　4、在做重大決定時(shí)，他總想到你。
　　He doesn't take a new job without talking to you first. Or maybe he's thinking about renting an apartment across the city, but he wants to double check that the commute between your place and his will be OK. Sizable decisions like this have a bearing on your partnership, and he's well aware.
　　在沒(méi)和你商量前，他不會(huì)接受一份新的工作。或也許他正打算在這座城市租一間公寓，但他會(huì)想先與你確認(rèn)往返于你們各自的住所是可行的。像這樣在做會(huì)影響到你的重大決定時(shí)，他清楚地意識(shí)到要與你討論。

　　5. He tells you things he's never told anyone.
　　5、有些事他只會(huì)與你分享。
　　Late at night — which everybody knows is prime time for life's most meaningful conversations — he tells you things he's never, ever told anyone . . . not even his best bro. FYI: this is the equivalent of a man forking over his heart.
　　當(dāng)夜已深，人人都知道進(jìn)行人生最有意義對(duì)話的黃金時(shí)間來(lái)臨了。他會(huì)向你袒露之前他從未向任何人（這其中甚至包括他的好基友）提及的事情。你要知道，這相當(dāng)于一個(gè)男人在向你傾訴他的內(nèi)心。

　　6. He doesn't flirt with other girls.
　　6、他從不與其他女孩調(diào)情。
　　If he has eyes only for you (seriously — just you!), this guy's a different fish. And you don't have to monitor his every move to see if he's hitting up other ladies — call it a woman's instinct or whatever, but you just know ... you know?
　　如果他只關(guān)注你，（真的關(guān)注點(diǎn)全放在你身上），那么這家伙與眾不同。你便不必時(shí)刻監(jiān)督他的一舉一動(dòng)，看他是否和其他人瞎搞。把“監(jiān)督”這個(gè)行為稱為一種女人的本能還是什么的吧，不過(guò)你就是知道（不需要，因?yàn)樗�不�?huì)出軌）……懂不？

　　7. He doesn't mind talking about the future.
　　7、他不介意談?wù)撃銈兊膶��?lái)。
　　When you bring up buying a house or getting engaged somewhere down the line, he doesn't flee for the front door. He doesn't have to be 100 percent on board with big relationship steps, but he's totally open to having a real conversation about them.
　　當(dāng)你開(kāi)始提及購(gòu)置一套房子或是在某個(gè)階段與他訂婚時(shí)，他不會(huì)奪門而出、逃之夭夭。他不必100%地參與到重大提升你們關(guān)系的步驟中去，但他一點(diǎn)都不介意與你認(rèn)真討論這些。

　　8. He shows you off.
　　8、他會(huì)向其他人驕傲地介紹你。
　　He totes you around like the flashiest new handbag. His mom, his best friend, and a dozen of his cousins know a heck of a lot about you, because he's head over heels and wants to share it with the world.
　　他像拎著最時(shí)髦的新包包一樣，帶著你四處逛。他的母親、好基友和一票的表兄弟對(duì)你知之甚多，因?yàn)樗�深深地迷戀上你，想要向全世界分享他的這種心情。

　　9. He loves making you feel special.
　　9、他喜歡讓你感受到你對(duì)他而言是個(gè)特殊的存在。
　　He doesn't just treat you like a queen — he wants to treat you like a queen. Sure, it can feel like a chore in any committed relationship, but for the most part, he's got a smile on his face when he's with you ... because you're the one.
　　他不僅僅是在像對(duì)待女王那樣對(duì)待你，（事實(shí)上）他就是想將你供作女王來(lái)對(duì)待。當(dāng)然，這在任何情侶關(guān)系中都是很稀疏平常的。不過(guò)最重要的是，你與他在一起時(shí)，他的臉上掛著笑容……因?yàn)槟憔褪撬�深�?ài)的那個(gè)她。（來(lái)源：滬江英語(yǔ)）